Father knows best
"lessons learned"
In Memory of
Family Gathering
Serena D’Angelo
Class of 2013
The most important lesson that my father ever taught me was that life is not
fair, but it goes on. My name is Serena D’Angelo. I am 20 years old and I
just completed my junior year at CNU as a communications major, with a
double minor in journalism and philosophy and religious studies. Working
since I was 16 years old, I have always prided myself in doing things for
myself, and making a difference in the community. In high school, I worked
as an assistant instructor at World Class Martial Arts, where I also trained
in Moy Thai kickboxing and Brazilian jiu-jitsu. I also worked at a
children’s birthday party center, Pump It Up and towards the end of high
school, I began my retail career, working at F.Y.E in the local mall. I also
was very involved with theater from elementary to high school, and was a
member of the International Thespian Society for two years. In high school I
also was involved in Ruriteens, Beta Club, show choir, and was a big part of
the student newspaper, The Shield. When I was accepted to Christopher
Newport University for the Fall of 2009, I brought these values of hard work
with me. Through the financial aid work-study program, I started working as
a student aid my first semester freshman year in the office for the
Department of Communication, then called Communication Studies. Three years
later, I still hold that position. Working in the department that I am
majoring in has given me the absolute best experiences I could have ever
asked for. I have established great relationships with my professors and I
feel very comfortable working as part of the #commnerd family. Perhaps this
was the reason I joined the international honor fraternity for
communications, Lambda Pi Eta, the spring of my sophomore year. As a junior,
I was elected Vice President for LPH, and I have spent this past year in
that leadership role planning a speakers series with talks from four comm
scholars, graduate school workshops, and Concert for Tommy. Next year, I am
looking forward to continuing my work with LPH as President. Aside from my
involvement with the Department of Communication, I have also spent
countless hours working with The Captain’s Log. I started writing articles
as a sophomore, and I became the Assistant Arts and Entertainment Editor the
second semester of sophomore year. My passion for theater in high school
combined with my love for music led me to adore writing about the arts. This
year I took my dedication for journalism further, spending 40+ hours a week
in the Captain’s Log office as the A&E Editor. On top of my school
commitments, I also have worked off campus at F.Y.E and Things Remembered
all three years I’ve been living in Newport News, both retail stores at
Patrick Henry Mall. I also work at those stores when I go home for breaks in
Mechanicsville. Unlike many of my peers, I do not have the financial support
of my parents to help me pay for college or with living expenses. I live off
campus, and I am supporting myself financially: paying for my rent, bills
and other living expenses. It is with the help of financial aid, student
loans, and scholarships that has allowed me to afford my tuition, and even
though my financial situation often has me struggling, I feel proud that I
am doing this on my own, making a difference in my own life. When I was 14,
my father had a heart attack, and soon after lost his job at the Richmond
Times-Dispatch. The medical bills and acquired debt put a great strain on
our family, financially and emotionally. Just two years later and a week
after my 16th birthday, he suffered another massive heart attack, this one
fatal. That was almost five years ago, and since then, I have learned a lot
about love, life, and loss. My dad was an exceptional human being. A walking
encyclopedia, he could always answer my questions help me with any of my
problems. He worked so hard his entire life for his family, and his hard
work instilled in me from a very young age how important it is to be able to
take care of yourself, even when all the odds are against you. Although I
struggle and sometimes I feel overwhelmed with all of my campus and
off-campus involvements, I know that I am bettering myself for the future
and that my hard work will pay off one day. I have one more year left in my
undergraduate career at CNU, and I intend to make the very most of it,
because even though life might not always be fair, it always goes on.